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Things Everyone Needs To Know How To Do
There are those
quintessential skills that we can all agree every human should have, including
wilderness and survival skills. However, in this day and age, there are another
set of skills we should acquire in addition to basic survival skills. Don’t underestimate
the importance of being prepared for an emergency. In this list you will find
all the skills you need to be self reliant in our information era, as well as
emergency related skills. Here’s 54 things everyone needs to know how to
do.
1. You should
know how to start a fire without matches.
You never know
when this might come in handy- a fire is one of the most important elements for
survival for a human being- providing warmth, light, and energy.
2. You should
know basic survival skills.
Should you ever
be stranded in a forest or forced to survive outside, you’d want to know the
best places to get water, what you can and cannot eat in the wild, where to
build a makeshift bed, how to catch a fish, how to correctly cross a river, how
to keep your core body temperature high… and much more. Get a survival guide
and begin learning.
3. You should
know how to grow your own vegetables.
Even if you
live in a city, you should make an effort to learn to grow your own food-
including all kinds of vegetables, herbs and fruits. It takes a lot of skill,
experience and time to make these plants yield valuable output- so if you’re
interested in learning this- don’t waste another minute. You might need this
skill one day.
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4. You should
know how to swim.
If you don’t
know how to swim yet, you need to seriously consider learning. There are a
number of emergency situations where you might need to swim in order to survive
or help someone else in the water.
5. You should
know how to change a tire.
It’s possible
you get a flat while on a trip one day, with no access to a car repair place;
perhaps even stranded in the middle of nowhere. What if no one on this trip
knew how to change the tire? Changing a tire is something you can learn
how to do in a matter of minutes that could save you lots of time and headaches
on your next road trip.
6. You should
know how to jump start a car.
This isn’t as
easy as it seems. If you watched your parents do this in the past but never
learned for yourself, now’s your chance. Don’t be unprepared when the need for
it arises. It’s very useful knowledge to have, and very common to need this
skill one day.
7. You should
know how to code.
Not knowing how
to program will soon become synonymous to being illiterate. It doesn’t seem
this way yet, but this age is coming. If you don’t know how to program, you’re
merely consuming the whole world around you, which is programmed. It’s
important to know how to navigate this new world by being able to tell the
computer what to do. If you want to start empowering yourself, here are
some resources.
8. You should
know how to build a website.
Another issue
of basic technological literacy. Everyone should have a website- whether it’s
personal or for a business. If you don’t know the basics of building a website,
you have to hire someone or buy a template. You are going to benefit a great
deal from learning. It’s also a great way to earn side income.
9. You should
know how to think critically and question the status quo.
With all this
information at our fingertips, now more than ever, we need to be able to think
for ourselves, question the current way of doing things, and be critical of all
forms of media, government and education.
10. You should
know how to cook an egg (correctly!)
Too many people
are ruining breakfast by mucking this up. C’mon people- it’s time to learn the
right way of doing this. Runny or under cooked eggs are not only bad for your
taste buds, but it could also increase your chances of getting salmonella.
11. You should
know how to perform CPR.
Do you want to
save a life? 70 percent of Americans feel helpless during a cardiac emergency,
and here’s another surprising statistic- the life you save is most likely the
life of someone you love, because 4 out of 5 cardiac arrests occur at home.
12. You should
know how to manage your time.
Time management
is a precise art and science, and if you haven’t studied it yet, you should.
Applying these principles of time management to your life can get you back
precious hours you didn’t know you had, and completely eliminate much of your
productivity destroying behavior.
13. You should
know how to dress properly.
First
impressions are important. Dressing to impress means being tidy, up to date on
fashion, looking as professional as you can, dressing for your body, and if
you’re advanced, bringing some personality into it.
14. You should
know how to approach and meet new people.
Even if you’re
an introvert, it is important to have the ability to walk up to a new person
and hold a nice conversation. Meeting people is a great way to learn new
things, expand your network, and gain new opportunities in life.
15. You should
know how to lift your own weight.
If you can lift
your own weight, it also means you can lift a lot of things without having to
rely on someone else. Having strength is always a handy trait to have
and, in case of an emergency involving hanging off a ledge, you’ll be able to
pull yourself out of trouble with ease.
16. You should
know how to remember peoples’ names.
Most people are
tired of that excuse that seems to glide off of so many people’s lips “I’m
not good at remembering names…” Let’s stop making this excuse because
a person’s name is the single most important thing you can possibly remember
when you meet someone new. A good way to remember someone’s name is to
say it at least twice during the conversation.
17. You should
know how to give a toast in front of lots of people.
Public speaking
is the number one fear in the world (ranking higher than the fear of death.)
It’s a fear, but if you practice, it’s not that scary. Learning to say a few
words in front of a large or small group is a huge asset that can be used in so
many instances, professional and personal. For example, you may need to give a
toast at a wedding some day. Don’t you want to be prepared and make it awesome?
Go to a local Toastmasters Club meeting and try it out.
18. You should
know how to negotiate.
Good
negotiation skills can save you a ton of money. These skills can also get you
that raise at your job you’ve been dreaming about. If you know how to negotiate
properly, it means you’re holding all the cards and you’re prepared to battle
it out.
19. You should
know how to detect a lie.
Learning to
detect when someone is lying to you seems like a sneaky thing to do, but you’d
be surprised how handy it could become, especially if you’re raising children,
or in charge of a huge team. It gives you the chance to consider all
possibilities in a relationship. Did you know 91 percent of humans lie on a
regular basis at work and at home, and you’re lied to about 2 or 3 times in a
ten minute conversation? Yeah. Food for thought.
20. You should
know how to shut up and listen genuinely.
If you learn to
do this well, you will be loved and admired, and you will understand people
better. It can improve relationships drastically, and ultimately make you a
more compassionate person.
21. You should
know how to tell a good story.
It sucks being the
one person around the campfire who has nothing to offer, doesn’t it? Learn how
to tell a good story that will have people using their imaginations again.
When the power goes out or there’s no cell phone service available,
you’ll be a valuable source of entertainment to everyone.
22. You should
know how to defend yourself against single and multiple assailants.
Why? Learning
self-defense makes you more aware of your surroundings, first of all. You also
stop taking physical confrontations for granted. You’re more likely able to
avoid a fight effectively if you’ve learned the art of self defense in the
first place.
23. You should
know how to use a credit card correctly.
It’s not
cash…too many Americans use their credit cards irresponsibly, and in doing so,
spend much more money on items than they are actually worth, pay tons of fees,
and don’t have the ability to reap the many benefits of the cards. Credit card
balances are supposed to be paid in full every month and they are not supposed
to allow you to live beyond your means.
24. You should
know how to invest in the stock market.
It’s not as
difficult as you might think. Educate yourself! Money does grow if you know how
to invest it correctly. You really have no excuse to not invest. There are a
number of ways to invest by diversifying your portfolio automatically and
manually through index or life cycle funds. Investing in the the stock market
is not about picking stocks, as Ramit Sethi loves to point out.
25. You should
know how to speak at least one or two languages besides English.
Did you know
that 75% of the world does not speak English? That’s a lot of people you won’t
be able to communicate with if you happen to be in an area where English isn’t
their first language. Expand your horizons and make an effort to
communicate with the rest of the world. Start with Chinese!
26. You should
know how to make money (without a job.)
Jobs and
paychecks are not the only way to earn money. There are many entrepreneurs out
there who know this, but there are just as many people who are wondering how
it’s done while slaving away at jobs. There is another way, and it’s not magic,
or the lottery. It’s determination, investing in your own education, and lots
of sweat. And it’s definitely possible. Instead of plopping down in front of
the t.v. after work, set some time aside to learns something and build up your
educational and entrepreneurial skills.
27. You should
know how to manage your personal finances.
This means
knowing how to create a budget, knowing how to save money, automating your
income and learning to invest and pay yourself first, before paying all your
bills.
28. You should
know how to draw.
In A
Whole New Mind, Daniel Pink talks about the importance of flexing our
“right brain” muscles, by learning creative skills such as drawing. Learning to
draw will actually improve leadership ability in a person, and enhance and
develop traits like empathy, inventiveness, and big-picture thinking.
29. You should
know how to be a respectful house guest.
You never know
when you might need to accept the hospitality of another human being. Know the
proper etiquette of being a house guest. A great way to do this is by inviting
guests into your own home. You’ll quickly learn (the hard way) what behavior is
highly questionable and disrespectful if your guest is not practicing proper
etiquette.
30. You should
know how to keep your computer secure.
With all the
information security threats and identity theft these days, we all want to make
sure our computer is secure, our personal data is private (as much as
possible), and our firewalls are up. Do you know how to set yours up? This is
basic computer literacy and probably one of the more important things to
be aware of.
31. You should
know how to navigate with a map and compass (without a GPS).
Not to mention-
learn to find the north star, learn to get your east/west bearings from the
sun… what if you’re on a trip and your GPS system fails you?
32. You should
know how to sew.
Basic sewing
skills- such as sewing a button back onto a coat the right way, or fixing a
loose shirt sleeve- will save you a few extra trips to the shopping mall.
Advanced sewing skills also improves self-confidence (the knowledge you can
mend everyday items), promotes focus (because it requires physical and mental
concentration), and teaches persistence (most sewing projects take a
considerable amount of time.)
33. You should
know how to travel hack.
Once you learn
this skill, you will never want to pay for a plane ticket ever again. Just type
“travel hacking” into your search engine and let the fun begin.
34. You should
know how to buy a car without getting ripped off.
If you don’t
know the proper method of buying a car (especially a used car), you will get
ripped off. Do you want to get ripped off? I thought so. Now go learn.
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35. You should
know how to be happy.
There is a
method to this, it’s not an automatically occurring thing- people who are
genuinely happy are happy despite their circumstances, not the other way
around.
36. You should
know how to fix a bike flat.
Most people
like to ride bikes. Most people don’t know how to fix a bike flat. If it
happens to you that you get a bike flat, and you don’t know how to fix it, you
will be walking home- carrying a heavy bike. Ouch.
37. You should
know how to have a conversation with someone of any age.
It’s a sign of
true maturity and humanity when a person can hold a quality conversation with a
5 year old or a 92 year old person without flinching. You will also learn so
much about life if you do this regularly.
38. You should
know how to drive a manual transmission vehicle.
People who
drive stick shift (manual transmission) cars understand their car engines
better than people who drive automatic transmission vehicles. Manual
transmission vehicles are more energy efficient than automatic transmission
vehicles. They are also more responsive to braking and accelerating, and they
are safer because of this higher level of control from the driver. A more
informed and advanced driver is also a safer driver. Finally, many parts of the
world drive manual transmission cars more than automatic cars, and you may need
to know how to drive one at some point in your life!
39. You should
know how to back up your data.
We accumulate
so much digital data these days! In addition to being able to do some spring cleaning
and organization of your data, you should have a clear system in place for
regularly backing up your data- whether it’s to a cloud storage location or
your own physical external hard drives. Hardware can break (and of course so
can software) and having an extra copy of all your data is pretty essential
these days.
40. You should
know how to say “I’m sorry” and “I was wrong.”
You know who
you are! Being able to admit your faults once in a while takes effort,
practice, and a change of attitude. It can repair broken relationships, heal
scars, and bring the conversation back to the important things in life.
41. You should
know how to sing or play an instrument.
Being able to
read music, appreciate all forms of music genres and make music yourself-
develops your brain and enriches your life. For example, learning how to play
the guitar
promotes well being.
42. You should
know how to ask for help.
It takes guts
to do this, and at some point in everyone’s life, they will need some help from
somebody.
43. You should
know how the basics of how to repair a car.
I am always
amazed at how the guys from Top Gear (the original, British version) can fix a
broken down car in the middle of driving through some crazy salt flats, or the
desert. How useful would it be if we could all understand the basic workings of
a car, diagnose the problem, and fix our own cars instead of spending hundreds
(sometimes thousands) of dollars at the car repair shop, trying to describe the
weird sound the car is making to the mechanics.
44. You should
know how to control your temper.
Holding onto
anger, as well as letting anger control your actions usually does more harm to
you than good. Learn to let the anger dissipate before reacting. Many angry
emails were regrettably sent because of the inability to control our tempers
and let the passion die down a bit first.
45. You should
know how to show gratitude, write a thank you note.
If you haven’t
written a thank you note yet, you need to start. For every professional (and
even personal) relationship where one or both of the people have benefitted or
learned something, a thank you note is in order. The habit of sending out thank
you notes to people is a great way to gain respect, trust, and stand out from
the crowd. Whether it’s for the person who interviewed you for a new job, a
trusted mentor, an old boss, or even your own parents- a thank you note goes a
very long way. It allows you to practice gratitude in your own life, and it
also makes the day of another person, giving them (and you) a chance to reflect
on your relationship and think of the positive outcomes of knowing one another.
46. You should
know how to parallel park.
Although the
driving tests all seem to require this skill, many people with driver’s
licenses mysteriously don’t know how to do this. If you live in the city, please
learn how to do this correctly without nicking the bumpers of the other cars!
47. You should
know how to write professionally.
There are many,
many reasons why you should know how to write professionally, from the basic
cover letter to the customer service email. Writing professionally will allow
your message to be clear and your voice to be respected, even when you’re not
speaking face to face.
48. You should
know how to perform basic first aid.
Someone you
care about or even you could get hurt and when you need to disinfect and dress
a wound, you’re gonna need to know how to do it right. Sometimes there’s no
time to wait for the doctors.
49. You should
know how to give a compliment.
Giving a
compliment the right way means paying attention to the details, focusing on the
good in others and being very specific. A generalization doesn’t go very far as
a compliment. Learn to compliment others by focusing on what makes the other
person truly special.
50. You should
know the correct way to respond to criticism.
Learn this
skill to avoid looking defensive, unprepared and immature. Criticism is a good
thing (most of the time), and it can help you improve and develop yourself if
you can learn how to take it objectively and reflect on yourself and your work.
51. You should
know how to put together a basic emergency preparedness kit.
Better yet,
don’t just know how to put one together, actually put one together and have it
ready. There’s no substitute for being well prepared.
52. You should
know how to prepare and roast a turkey or chicken.
Or if you’re
vegan- a tofurky. You’re probably going to be in charge of this at some point
in your life during the holidays.
53. You should
know how to use google efficiently.
Stop wasting
precious time by using google incorrectly. Learn to be precise and use the
built in tools that google already comes with. Find exactly what you need using
google more efficiently and more accurately. You can learn this here.
54. You should
know how to crowd-source opinions from your facebook friends…
Where do you
think I got most of the ideas for this article?
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